I have noticed the friendly atmosphere here on BLF has been changing over the last while, to a CPF-like less friendly place. I myself has had some bad attitudes thrown at me by a couple somewhat new members here lately who probably came from CPF & their ignorance with them.
I have also noticed the change in other topics too between others, especially with new members joining in and asking simple questions then receiving somewhat blunt answers from a few. I’m noticing the less-welcoming attitudes more so these days as compared to the more inviting atmosphere that BLF once had a few years ago, i hope that’s not the case, but it seems like it lately…
I didnt join the forum as long as you did
But i’m pretty sure the atmosphere is still much more friendly than the forum-we-all-know
indeed it still is here, as i rarely read through come of the stuff there from time to time.
I have not noticed any change.
I am still pretty new here myself. I watched both forums, this one and, the other one for almost a year before making a decision.
I joined both the same day. I asked the same question on both forums. It was not simple and the correct answer would be from someone that really knew what they were talking about.
I got my answer here in about 15 minutes and welcomed warmly.
I never did get an answer on the other one.
Either no one knew the answer or, no one cared. Either way you guys are stuck with me now.
We just started a small business on top of my regular job so I do not post as much as I did a few months ago. I chime in where I can, and I always try to heck in daily. LOL love the Home Depot thread. May stop by there later.
I like it here but, I will say I do notice a bit of arrogance from time to time.
I'm from the Southern part of the U.S. and well.... We do talk a little slow at times but, we always try to remember to say please, and thank you. That is a way of life where I live. I taught my daughter to respect others just as my father taught me and his taught him.
Respect is so simple, it really makes life just feel better...
Just my humble opinion...
aw, anytime new guys get to a forum? they (usually) quickly pick up on “how to act” based on how everyone else acts around them.
a few “trim ups” aside, of course.
we have a rich blend of personalities here. a lot of us wouldnt hang out together in real life without knowing the other was also into flashlights, i dont think.
i know as an example? me and mr enderman are “polar opposites” i am pretty sure. I am sure it didnt “help” any i was off work and getting “strung out” working on a few little projects 2 and even 3 days at a time? (makes me slightly weird, but i work good like that)
and we both managed to “zen” and still work together. our personalities are like oil and water, but, we made it work… and now? now i like him personally more, having spent time online with him once or twice now.
we dont have to have SLEEPOVERS at each others house here at BLF, we just need to “zen” on our flashlight hobby. “we” are not a homogenous group, like… a hunting site, everyone agrees on most things? we are a really diverse blend of groups of people.
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just like any lab or office i was ever in? all it takes, is for people to TRY not to be TOO rude, even when they are not having a good time or a good day… and the flip side? is that everyone also has to TRY not to get “offended” and their panties in a knot.
its like pedestrians and drivers? the drivers have to TRY not to HIT the pedestrians? and the pedestrians have to TRY to not GET HIT, for their part. If both sides just “try” a little? it’ll always be down to a dull roar.
where you get problems? is when you have a few drivers speeding thru crosswalks, laughing.
where you get problems? is when you teach pedestrians to walk out RIGHT in front of cars, and to scream “pedestrians have the right of way!!!” at everyone all day long.
where you have BIG problems? is when the pedestrians and drivers are both acting up…lol
I’ve been here nearly 6 years and I’ve noticed it’s much less friendly now. It’s become cliquish IMO.
Let’s hope you’re not right…
But it’s a good signal to give off i.m.o.
These are exceedingly crazy times, or at least, i think they are…
This doesn’t help the average human mood.
I’ll keep an extra eye on myself, i can be ‘moody’ too.
I agree with you that’s why I have only 700+ posts on this forum since I joined BLF in 2011!
It’s always been cliquish, you’re all old and gettin’ grumpy! :laughing:
Old?? I’m 65 and still a kid!
I am relatively new on here but among all the forums I use BLF is by far the best.
On other forums the tone can be very rough, people hiding behind screens and attacking others, trying to discuss politics and religion in a inappropriate way and openly bullying newer or less-known members.
BLF doesn’t seem to be like that at all. I always thought of the members here as very polite, helpful, and supportive. It is almost like users leave their bad mood elsewhere before logging on here.
Having traveled to all continents (with the exception of AU/NZ, unfortunately) I also like the very international environment and users from all over the world!
lol* that too
Now get off my lawn 
I think most folks on BLF are very friendly, well-behaved, and show de-escalating behaviour.
People who are not like that can at times dominate a discussion, and it happens that I stop visiting a thread with a good subject because of that. This happens more often than 5 years ago.
Sometimes those people catch more of the BLF-spirit over time as they learn and get more enthousiastic about flashlights, some leave BLF, some keep showing IMO unfriendly or rude behaviour at times.
But all the cool stuff happening on BLF and the many people who are immensely dedicated to the flashlight hobby, for me more than compensates for an unfriendly athmosphere every now and then.
Glad someone agrees with me.
Born in 61, I think I fit right in here with most. LOL!!
CRX, you'll get there eventually. The old and grumpy. LOL ;)
Old and grumpy.., hm..,could be what my daughter is trying to tell me lately , in a very subtle way...?
I have to admit that sometimes I act less friendly , but only like a response to the lack of respect or arrogance of a newbie, that claims he knows everything , and we should bow , and be grateful that he noticed us...!!!
Also , I had to point out that more and more incomers are out of the genuine scope of this forum.., with threads and posts that has nothing to do with it , I'll call them " stalkers for no reason"..., but ,as a general atmosphere , is no big difference .
As Jerromel said , we are living hard times , and the tolerance is not what it was...Maybe is time for reflection...
Robert, I just had to walk on your beautiful lawn barefooted. It made feel like a youngster again.
I’ll play the devil’s advocate -> years ago when I was a new member with under 10 posts I was PM’d by a so called established/respected member with a few thousand posts -> in a nutshell that member requested that I stop posting in threads where I had thought outloud & mentioned some harmless mods I had planned (something trivial & non-offensive like that & it was only 1 or 2 posts.) Apparently just reading my harmless posts was offensive to HIM. Geeh, what a classy guy.
In any case I just PM’d back to that member that he needn’t write me any further as I would just delete any messages with his name on it unread.
Afterall, this IS just flashlights we’re talking about & here for. At the end of the day I just say that it’s nothing worth letting anyone get under our skin for.
But yeah after all that -> Yes, I agree with you. I do feel a little change on the forum. But so far I feel it is minor & cyclic.