Lifes disasters seem to follow me around.

Here in my state once the two parties live separately they are considered separated and all debt or contracts accumulated after that day is on the individual. Once one person moves out with intent to seperate, from that day the other is not responsible for anything the other does.
I really hate to hear the bad news DB. I know your country’s laws are different and I assume you have already spoke to a lawyer to advise you. :confounded:

That sucks to say it simply…. :rage:

Where can I donate to help you?!!

Not a bad idea

If you move to Ontario, CALIFORNIA you can get a job at maglite and make it easier for me to buy more lights from you. Win-win!!! Of course you’ll be feeding my addiction which will result in me having an ex…hmmm. Win-win?

My brother in law is now my ex-bro-in law because of the same thing. Never paid child support for his kids but he did win Big once and bought his 2 daughters honda accords that were only a year old. At least he’s trying

That’s sad to hear!

If it’s unevitable to sell some of your lights, we are more then happy to buy some of your lights.

Awww Man, That is a drag…. hope things get better soon.

” DBSAR ” It is good to share these experiences, your not alone. At least here you have many Comrades to lean on. :beer:

Sorry to hear that Den/DBSAR!

I feel for you. That said, I’m glad I never married.

Damn… and They™ (bank?) let that stand??

I’d look into hiring a lowyer to sue her into oblivion, if not file criminal charges.

I’d probably be tempted to sell her body-parts to recoup the bux, too.

What a disaster :frowning: . I hope you have good luck getting your finances back on track, and :+1: that you keep trying to get the lantern done :slight_smile:

Maybe go seek legal advice? If you can prove you were split up then that $25k might not be your problem at all, just hers.
Either way you must sever all ties with her asap if she is going to continue gambling.

Ya know, loaning money to gamble is called loan sharking. Illegal. Family member got out of paying gambling debts with that defense. Of course it took a lawyer and a few years to make it go away. It was in excess of $100k though.

Sorry to hear about your bad fortune. If there is anything we can do to help. Just hollar my friend.

Sorry to hear that DBSAR. Things can only get better, right?

Hey.

It’s only money. and not to much at that. be thankful yo got to it and blocked any more losses .
(You did. didn’t you!)

Br thankful you only got caught with that amount believe me.
See a lawyer, and just get on with your life hey.

we live in Australia. and mt wife loves gambling. But she can afford it.
She owned a Bingo business b4 we retired and sold it.
You wouldn’t believe some of the story’s she tells. Pokies and Bingo. and horses etc.

Holy crap, I hope you can find a way through this!

It sounds like there may be some ideas posted above in case you haven’t already explored those… but mostly I hope you’re doing okay and your luck will take a turn for the better.

Wait, this sounds like loan sharking.

I hope all goes well for you.

Love it. :money_mouth_face:

Really sorry to hear Den. Take care mate.

Sorry to hear. Keep your chin up.