First suggestion.
Stop buying lights for a few months. Test and use the ones you have. Find out what you like and what you use the most.
Do not worry about what others think. Use your experience in making decisions. Again go out in the dark and use your lights. Find the short falls and things you do not like about them and see what others are saying.
Next worry less about the batteries. If you bought a reliable smart charger, charge the batteries when they seem low.
Learn how ever you can in how to use a multimeter. Use it to check your batteries.
Think about what you like in a light. write it down. Keep your notes for 2-3 months before making your next purchase.
Take your time and read up on what is out there. You are not going to learn everything about flashlights in 2-3 weeks.
Don’t rush out and be the first to by a light because it has this one cool thing. If it is that cool the light will be around for a long time. (Can you look up the oldest post for the BLF Q8? it has been around for what 4-5 years now and still one of the most recommended soda can lights out there.)
Hobbies are meant to be enjoyed. Slow down and enjoy the journey, do get caught up in the BUY! BUY!! BUY!!!
Keep all the lights you have right now as you do like wine, whiskey, guns, Exwives, and other collectable things. The ones you get after educating yourself over time will be better choices. You will also find that over time your tastes will change. As an example I used to love nothing but throwers. If it was a flood I would not even think about it. Now I rarely even look at throwers and have a nice collection of mules.
If you are going to trash them all because you do not understand the purchases you made, that is kinda back on you, and sounds more like an impulse control/maturity issue. Recommendations can be a tricky thing. Kinda like buying guns, knives, sports cars and camera gear. You have to consider your source. Ask around for others that are in your area. You might be surprised who is, they might even be able to help you, before you go dropping money on lights you either don’t like or do not need.
Yeah I kinda rambled around there, but you are trying to learn or buy everything that is the best over night and you just can not get there from here. Learn to live and learn with your mistakes and you might find hobbies can be fun and enjoyable.