An explanation and apology

I usualy can’t stand people posting sob storys on forums especially people who post about there own illnesses, but this is very different, my heart goes out to you both. I can only hope you can make the right decision for all concerned.

thanks guys, I’ll be honest, the mods on tfe have been aware of this for a bit and have just been awesome, I am not in the least suprised that you are all being just as awesome, its why blf is a special place for me.

Grumpiness should be properly adjusted when the sun returns to more regular british levels rather than the stupid level its been at recently, I’m a fridge engineer by trade and needless to say, high ambients = very busy gords, this is not good for mrs gords as she’s having to deal with a lot of this on her own which adds guilt to my other hang ups.

Whatever will be will be, this was programed into either the successful sperm or successful egg, nothing anyone could do to predict it, no one to blame either, just a bit of a sickener to be honest.

I’m just glad I have this place and tfe to drop into, its helpful having people totally unattached to you in real life to talk to.

Gords, your story hits kind of close to home for me. All I can say is where there is life there is hope, so don’t give in to the negative thoughts. You and your’s will be in the Cone family prayers. Be strong and know that your invisible friends are pulling for ya.

Tough decisions, cannot even imagine myself in such a situation.
I think I can cope with reading just a little grumpiness at forums!

I wish you all Best Of Luck!

Heart breaking news Gords, I wish this moment turns the best possible way for you and your family.

I write grumpy posts caused by much less than what you are going through, and I find that to be ok on BLF, I have nice periods as well to compensate. Take care the upcoming time, hope things clear up a bit one way or another.

And if you feel like it you can always do a 'sorry for being grumpy all the time' flashlight giveaway .

Gords,

You make me realise how simple my life is. I have problems that at times I consider to be large but it’s all relative.

I’m not a believer in God so no prayers here but I’ll think of you from sunny Bury, not that far away from you.

All the best my friend.

Prayers to the both of you and hope all turns out for the best.

Take care of the home front Gords. You have a nice big family for support and another one here for backup. I’m an ocean away, but my thought are with you.
-Peter

Best of luck to your family. Dont know if ure religious but we’ll be prayin for you guys.

hey bill, no worries on the prayers, I’m not a believer myself but I appreciate the sentiment from others, your right about bury being on the doorstep too I’m up there more than you can imagine with work, heck I was in whitefield at half five this morning lol.

Djozz, once funds are settled I may just do another giveaway, I don’t even want to talk about what’s going out in the next month, I could buy a few deft x’s though for the same cash……I’m not flush with cash by any stretch of the imagination, that’s for sure, but a giveaway is not unlikely to happen for whatever reason.

I am truly sorry to hear that. I wish you and your’s the best and my prayers go out to you and your family.

Graham, you are in my prayers. My pastor went thru the same. And I’m undergoing some issues myself. Here’s an excerpt from the prayer of serenity for you pls :
“God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace.”

I wish that all good things that are in the world, may happen to you.

Sorry to hear the news, Graham. I hope everything works out.

Best wishes to you and your family.

thanks guy’s. orion, that’s a touching quote I’m familiar with, our current predicament is, we go with the amnio, its a one in a hundred chance it makes things worse, we don’t do it, we just don’t know.

Every step is steeped in soul searching over which is the right path to take.

As I say, every day, every step, one step at a time, that’s all we can do.

Having you guys here at my back though even in spirit is a big help, so thanks all, thanks for being there and I seriously hope that us takong the hit means you guys don’t have too, I wouldn’t wish this predicament on anyone.

You know my feelings gords for you and your family. Your right. Look at the big picture and break it down into little pictures and you will find your first step. All the best and cuddles all round.

MrsDNF, I might just collect those cuddles in person one day so be wary……

I know your feelings and they are much appreciated, you just can’t credit the boost that distant friends can give. :beer:

Terrible news man, sorry that such an awful situation has come upon you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope things get much better for you soon.