I just tried marking one of my old posts as rude, but got a āwebsite has encountered an unexpected error messageā, maybe it was just from the load of people trying it, but fyi.
However, the reason I was trying it was to see if there was a way to easily see which posts were marked rude and which ones Iāve marked rude so corrections can be made in case it was updated by the poster?
It is also important to note that all of these labels like ārudeā and ātrollā are used to silence those who choose to dissent from majority opinion. So if you think differently, you must be rude or a troll.
Now, ah, could the button appear on the ads as well?
Iād like to tag the whatchacallit MilitaryMonster700 adsā¦.
I think Iām just joking, but these days with smart coders I can never tell in advance whether Iām joking or wishing in the presence of a wizard, and Iām often surprised by what can be made to work.
This is an important point. One of the major instigating factors of fights here is when people start throwing around insults and labels like that. So the original post in this thread tries to be very clear; if you feel somebody is out of line, be it ānormalā rudeness or ātrollishā rudeness, please refrain from calling them out, and donāt have any interaction whatsoever with the person. Instead, hit the Rude! button and contact me if itās an extreme case or becoming a pattern and I donāt notice it.
But please also keep in mind this recent addition I made to the original post:
:laughing: Well actually yes, you are in the presence of the Google wizardry, which usually targets relevant ads, but occasionally gets them dead wrong. Sorry about that, those are ads that Google personalizes for you, and no two people get the exact same set of Google ads, and I donāt have any real control over what they serve up for you. With that being said, if you continue to see a really annoying or really inappropriate Google ad on this site please let me know and I can block that advertiser. The emphasis being on āreallyā, because Iād prefer not to be deluged with more administrative tasks.
Sorry thatās not possible at the moment. In retrospect I guess this is a fairly important feature for this system to work better. Iāll see what I can do.
I wonder if TKās ākillfileā could also be implemented as a button.
Because I think thereās, for most of us, some sort of comment that (while not ārudeā) hits a hot button.
And some folks do enjoy banging on their favorite buttons to see who gets upset, vs. who applauds.
āā¦ this flashlight fries the craven illiberal hearts of lotus eatersā¦ā¦
That sort of thing. It means nothing but it incorporates a few buttons that might touch tender spots in someone who sees a buzzword.
Those are the sorts of posts where a ādonāt want to see this ever againā button would be most helpful.
Yeah, I can edit the CSS in TKās āafter darkā to enable the feature now. I do. Works great.
But how many among us who see something that pisses us off react by immediately wanting to go copy and paste a bit of code so we donāt have to get pissed off?
Backing away is, you know, the right thing to do. Itās also the difficult thing to do.
First, I hope this doesnāt make a lot of extra work for you as admin, people playing with something that is meant very seriously.
Second, I already see people playing with the button, raking up big numbers like itās a matter of pride, when in fact, rule number one clearly states that rude behavior will get your membership revoked. So maybe Iām just thinking too literally but I saw the Rude! button as a 1-10 scale of how close you are to getting banned. Going to 12 or 20 or 50 just seems like someone asking to no longer be a member on BLF, according to Rule #1.
And lastly, how do you establish this difference, between playful running up of the numbers only to watch them fall over ensuing days versus real actual rude comments made that should have someone ejected from the forum? If the āticksā count down daily, then itās easy for anyone to intentionally be rude and get away with it on a regular basis.
I was a member of Photography on the Net (POTN) for years, they used to use this type of system and it became so problematic they did away with it.
I have seen members here blatantly break rules, in ways that should have banned them according to the rules, and yet they are still here. Thankfully, TK gave some options and I am using those options where BLF protocol has failed.
Seems like this is going to be more work for you SB as opposed to less work. It would appear that there are going to multiple cases of members being ostracized for their dissenting views in any given thread. Hence, you will likely have to go back and analyze the true nature of the individuals ārudeā total as opposed to simply banning them. My dissenting opinion here alone would likely get high ārudeā totals in a GB setting for example, as there always seems to be two opposing factions in each GB.
I understand that users are playing with the button right now, because itās new. Once I make sure the bugs are worked out of the system Iāll tell users to only use it seriously, and Iāll probably eliminate the ability to ārudeā oneās own posts.
Sometimes the user has actually been banned, I just donāt make a public announcement so as to not give more glory to users that are trying to get attention by being rude. And sometimes I simply donāt notice rude behavior and/or major violations of the rules. So I would appreciate a PM in cases where you feel somebody is showing a pattern of major rudeness.
Weāll see how it works. Of course everybody has a right to express their opinions and even dissenting views, which is the whole purpose of a forum. But the problem is that a few people are being extremely rude while expressing their disagreement. I do want to reiterate yet again that the Rude! button is not meant for disagreeing with an opinion, but rather for flagging posts that are inappropriate.
I have my own opinions as to what constitutes rudeness, but if a significant number of people agree with me by marking a given post as Rude!, and if the poster is a repeat offender, I will ban them, just as Iāve always done. Iāve always had to look into scattered cases of trolling and extreme rudeness, so nothing changes there for me. Now I just have more opinions to take into account when making the decision, and not all of them necessarily have to flood my PM inbox with complaints about an individual.
Judgement was called for in the past and is still called for. The rude button is merely a tool to help people become more aware of how they are perceived by others including those who have declined to respond to the rude posts in the past. Hopefully with the benefit of reducing rude responses by those who do respond. There have been a number of insults tossed off in a variety of threads where the poster took for granted it was ok to do so and though they were not trolling were most definitely rude. āAggression unchallenged is aggression unleashedā Phaedrus(15BC-50AD) so thank you SB for providing an acceptable form of challenge. This shouldnāt be viewed as some license to go on witch hunts though. Undoubtedly, some will take offense at having their behavior challenged viewing it as a challenge to their freedom as itās a rare bird that can accept criticism and take it to heart with humility. Most seem to snooze after a wake up call.
Iāve seen a lot of rudeness towards people selling things, especially and ironically Chinese vendors, when someone doesnāt like the prices they see. Iād say itās a defining characteristic of BLF. Saw a vendor thread recently where the 1st reply was dogging on the price, which was no surprise at all to me.
I would also add that weāve seen a lot of cases where normally friendly users speak up when a fight breaks out to defend who they perceive to be the āinnocent victimā or to reprimand rude users. But by doing so, they often get dragged into the fight, their post bumps the thread up in the recent posts, and if there is a malicious poster there (s)he will use that as additional fodder to inflame the argument even more. But now the Rude! button is available so that those who just sincerely want to help donāt feel tempted to intervene in an argument.
Glad you brought up this important issue. Itās important to note that the BLF Rules against rudeness and fighting do not have any conditions whatsoever relating to country of origin or seller/customer status. Please remember that non-spam posts by foreign sellers should be treated with the same courtesy that any other BLF member deserves. There is a real person sitting behind the keyboard that made that post, and they have feelings too, whether they understand English well or not. Of course you are welcome to try to ask for a better deal or haggle on the price. But if you donāt like the seller or youāre not interested in the deal, just step away. If itās a terrible deal or otherwise unwanted (but not spammy) vendor, they will naturally sink into the background if users simply donāt respond. Responding with personal insults to poor marketing will only bump up the thread and give them more attention.