Victory. removing my D4 driver was not too bad, this post , and these pictures really helped. I could “see” where to press on the board not on a component, especially the picture of the three drivers. I say “see”, as you (at least I) can not see through the hole to a spot on the board where there are not components. But with a skewer, a bit of offset to avoid R5 and his buddies (thanks to the pictures), and a couple taps with my D4 body (host?) and the driver came loose. I am using the cheap clip for programming, and I did have to fiddle a bit with the pins and how they extend through the clip body a bit. Once I got them all extended properly, the light programmed right up. I am SOOOO glad I had a demo board with a ATTiny85 on it to verify my setup (multiple times) during the process. The demo board was much easier to program, not sure why but it all worked out in the end. :smiley:

Special thanks to goshdoggit for all the tips and TK for the awesome firmware (but it really is software is it not?).