This is far from true.
You can find plenty of variation in measurements even if they are “standard”.
For example wire gauge will vary completely depending on how good or cheap the brand is, even though they all are supposed to follow a standard.

Knowing the difference between a flat and button top battery is not rocket science. That is not part of the li-ion battery standard.
If learning a bit about a hobby is too difficult, then it probably shouldn’t be your hobby.
The amount of traffic to BLF has been continuously increasing over the years btw.