Let me tell you something really funny: I studied Electrical Engineering and I was pretty much the only student who wasn’t that great at soldering. Took a break for years (and never worked as an engineer, at all) and now, all the sudden and with the help of forums like BLF, my skills have improved a lot. Still not there yet, but my boards no longer look horrible.

I think you should build a few lights, take a very old PC and desolder components on the motherboard, disassemble old devices and you’ll be alright after a while.