“which is near daylight white balance”

5000-5500K has always been what I’ve seen for that and has always looked pretty true to life for me.

Does iPhone not have manual WB? I’m sure there’s a camera app out there that would include it.

To me that shot of the 3000 and 4500K only looks much closer to how the lights appear unless compared to BRIGHT sunlight (and then they’d look only slightly warmer).