Today sucked pretty bad

Sad news, indeed. You have my heartfelt condolences. My brother and his wide went through this twice before being blessed with a son. Each was very hard on them. Cry and try again.

Man the people here are so nice.

I’m deeply sorry for your loss mate :frowning:

Sorry to hear this ... Prayers for you and your family

Sorry to hear your bad news.

Sorry to hear that. My deepest condolences.

My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Just wanted to join in, and say that I agree with all the above..

share the burden! 4 shoulders can carry more than 2.

Well I know you do not know me and I am a new guy here but, I can totally relate because I went through this about 10 years ago. My wife and I lost our triplet babies, we had complications and they came way to early and we lost all 3 at birth in the hospital:( .

My advice is pretty simple talk about it with your wife, let it ALL out and do not hold it in. If your religious person going to church may help too. The key for me was to stay busy (I had a project car that I worked on, it kept me and my mind busy). Over time it will get easier but it takes a while, I still get upset thinking and talking about it. Also they offered us grief counseling, but we did not do it (It might be something that would be good for you once things settle down a little).

Hang in there.

So sorry to hear that. I can’t imagine the situation, but the only thing I can tell you is to try it again and don’t let this sad experience stop your intention to make a bigger family

Sorry for your loss CarpentryHero. My condolences to you and your family :(

Terribly sorry, man. Hang in there.

“MiniMagic That Never Was” - This touched me beyond words. He/she “was” you just didnt get to meet…this time around. All I can say dude is keep on keeping on and support your wife, it will get easier - i’m not religious but believe that there is more to us than this one life, my condolences to you and your wife.

Thanks all, I appreciate all the great advise. It helps to let it out :slight_smile:

Thanks Crinklecut, Your right “it was” I just didn’t get to meet em

More than welcome, sorry for your loss again.

My brother and his wife went through the same situation several years ago with her first pregnancy and it was very hard on both of them. I have no way to understand what you are dealing with but you have my sympathy. In my brother's case, they went on afterward to have two great children and I think that helped them more than anything else for dealing with the loss...

Life is sacred.

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Music is a gateway to healing.

Done pm if you want just to get so e minor info Rudy

Back at the hospital today, she was feeling dizzy as the blood is leaving a little quicker than expected. Ambulance guys where awesome, and kept the mood good

Hopefully she can get a dnc before tomorrow, otherwise we may be he here awhile

Thank you for all the well wishes and prayers, talking about it has helped me to be the rock my wife needs

So very sorry for your loss. 32 years ago this month I was there.

All I can say to you is it never...and probably shouldn't go away. You will never get over it. It hurts less with time...but hurts. Just find a place in your heart to park the sorrow...embrace the thoughts of what "Might have been", Love your wife, Love your life, Love for always "What might have been" and know that tomorrow ...some tomorrow, it will be better. Perhaps that child is holding another child's hand.... Our angels perhaps simply had other duties.

God Bless. Dan.

Thanks Dan, she is stable we are waiting for our turn with the doctors for a D&C.
The grand parents are going to bring our son in around noon to lift her spirits. Hopefully I get to bring her home tonight.

Thanks again for all the positive energy and praires i love you all my flashaholic family :slight_smile: