Thank you Scallywag, it is what it is, ya know? Dad lost a kidney to cancer back in 1981, and now the other kidney also is infected and he’s too old to operate or do chemo (they tried a chemo medicine but the stuff is horrible and was attacking his liver so he had to quit) I guess at 90, after getting the reprieve from the first time for 38 years, he’s really done well. It’s just very difficult watching him slowly fade and with all the pain and discomfort, well, it just sucks and I’m sure a lot of folks can relate as the big C is worldwide and very busy.
If he can make it to September he and Mom will have been married 68 years. This is all very hard on her for sure. She’s 85.