I ran into a similar need once. I was building an mot spotwelder and wanted a button that would engage and immediately disengage no matter how long the button was pressed.
I ended up using a two stage drill trigger and a capacitor on the relay. It kinda works;)
I been thinking about this, if such a switch existed, how would you ever turn it off ?
Even what I linked will do what you want but won’t ever turn off, will only turn of if you short circuited it and it will pop out and wait to be reset.
Only thing that might work is one like I listed, but for a plane - you can twist to make it pop out to break the circuit/switch of the circuit - expensive though as most plane or marine stuff is.
Anyway as you got lots of space on what your building , why not just use a normal on/off switch then a N/C push button switch in series to activate the modes by momentarily pushing it as required ?
So how do you change the press length? If the driver needs a short press to scroll through the different brightness levels, and a medium press to reverse into the hidden features, like strobe or battery check, how would you ever get into strobe?