I can’t think of any lights that fit your need. When you talk about a handheld thrower I’m thinking of a light with a single LED and reflector. If you also want around 3000 lumen I typically think of an LED like the 50.2 or 70.2, but they are not the prettiest neutral White. The only powerful led I can think of that might be a nice looking NW is the SBT-90.2. Maybe an Astrolux FT03S, 4500lm, 5700K. Freeme has it for $90. You can look into that one.
Maybe someone can recommend something cheaper or better. I’m not real up to date on the latest flashlight models. (My everyday work lights use the 50.2 and 70.2)
Oh yeah, you might look at older xhp50 lights using boost drivers. This older led was pretty nice looking, color wise, but output was only 2500 lm or so with a boost driver.