Absolutely right ChiX! This was shot on Panny DMC-LX5. Not quite cheap for a P&S but cheap by DSLR standards: ISO-100, 1/15, f/2.0
And this one on a 7 yeard old Sony DSC-T9 @ f3.5: ISO-320, 1/8, f/3.5
Bokeh is likely easier to control w/a DSLR (with the right lens) but again not an absolute necessity. Of course, it also depends on the effect you're trying to achieve.
My other camera that I now often shoot with is a Panny FZ150.
That is really a nice image having been shot at ISO 1600. Did you have to work it over to get rid of any noise, or is that actually how it came out of the camera?