As an adult, you can still ask, but you can’t expect everything to just be handed to you. But people are trying kindly and directly to hand you the answers here. You come back with “not good enough” to everyone so far.
If it’s hard for you to comprehend it from what’s been said or hard for you to search for information and answers on the internet, then remember this….something we teach to our children:
“If it’s not yours, don’t touch it.”
And call it a day.
Otherwise, some adult communication and interaction skills can work out the rest of it, usually without harm. I mean you basically deflected everything and called him a dick for being upset and confronting you (and yes, he was pretty flat and direct about it, wasn’t he…here and on reddit both, but possibly upset that you were posting it in several or many places for all he knew). And then you didn’t want to be called out in public and said you’d prefer it to be behind closed doors in a PM. Ok. But you didn’t even just say a simple, “hey, sorry man.” Do you see why at this point it’s not just the owner of the “property” that is upset, but several you’ve interacted with on both forums now?
As for myself, when I saw his post, I did sit up straight and was like, oh crap, I did the same thing basically…although I did credit him clearly and his watermarks were in the photos. And it wasn’t for my own gain, so to speak. I don’t think you gain anything from sharing about a light you’ve used, either, but the two situations were obviously perceived differently, y’know? But now, knowing how he feels about his work, and even though we’re sort of all one big flashlight family, if I feel the need to use any of his great photos in the future, I’ll ask him first, no problem.
It could be that after being in this forum for 12 years that he may have expectations that you would know something he thinks you should know, too (right or wrong…that’s just how people often work).
But give the man a simple apology and don’t do it backhanded like that, and everything will probably be fine. In the future, try not to do things that require apologies or backpedaling later.