This thread is getting dangerously close to political…
…but my recommendation for the Convoy S2 stands. As has been posted, the most important aspect of self defense is situational awareness. Keep your eyes open, head up, look around, don’t create the appearance of being a victim. A flashlight is a great tool to aid in this, and can be used to ensure that no one is hiding around/in dark areas, entry ways, vehicles, etc. When walking through a dark parking lot, I always keep my flashlight in my weak-side hand ready to use if necessary, but it is not a defensive tool, it simply supplements other defensive strategies. The light can help increase your situational awareness, without being used as any sort of a weapon. Where I live, additional defensive tools are legal ( ) and my free hand is always ready to deploy if needed. In addition, IF YOU ARE FAMILIAR AND TRAINED in such things, a flashlight could also be used as a kubotan-style tool, to attack pressure points on an assailant.
Some time back, we were shopping at a store in our area. The location where we parked was crowded, but had cleared by the time we had finished shopping, leaving our car standing alone in the area. As we began loading our purchases in the car, I noticed a person casually walking across the parking lot in our direction. Normally not a big deal, but was strange as we were alone in an otherwise empty area and he was walking directly toward us. At that point, I stood up, turned toward him (still about 100’ away) and watched him intently. When he noticed my change in posture, he immediately turned and walked in a wide arc around our car, and then walked off in a different direction than when approaching us. Not certain what his intention was, but it served as a good example of the importance of maintaining an awareness of your surroundings.
Funnier examples are watching kids glued to smart phones walking into stationary objects… :smiling_imp:
Don’t be afraid to look people in the eye, so they are aware that they are being watched. Criminals want a victim; the key is to not present the image of a victim, so they will look elsewhere. Always keep your eyes open, and if something doesn’t feel right, walk away.