Recommend me a driver 17mm dia. 3V input with more than 1A to the led and modes

The 7135 based drivers mentioned above won't work. They're designed to have Vin be slightly higher than Vout and are not boost circuits.

As far as I know, the drivers in higher end lights are not available for diy.

Your best bet at this point would be this driver here. My quick test results of it are here.